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i love the moment when

...the morning's first hot sip of coffee swirls through and through you, awakening you to a new day.
...inspiration overtakes you in a wave of positive energy. realize and feel fully the embrace of a new season. blow out the candles and make that wish.
...when they are joyfully pronounced husband and wife.
...a new word or concept or skill is mastered, and lights up his face. are about to open your mailbox and are filled with hope and wonder. know you've got something really wonderfully amazing to share. finally receive news that the precious new life has been born.
...the idea or solution crystalizes right before your eyes.
...the stroke of midnight brings a new year of possibility and hope.
...when all your work is completely done.
...someone tears off the wrapping from a gift you give them, while knowing they will absolutely love it. capture on film a moment of pure beauty. finally sit down and have the gift of some time to yourself. see for the first time your hard work really pays off.
...that embrace fills you with warmth. turn the key, and are finally home. read the last delicious words of a book you couldn't put down. see pure joy and love in their eyes. yell "surprise" as the guest of honor walks in.
...the sun peeks out from behind the clouds as the gray skies begin to clear. realize that you will remember this moment, forever.


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